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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 26, 2004 16:17:58 GMT -5
Why me? With 04 alone all of my "friends" have had 10 parties and I have gotten invited to none of them. They were promised not to tell me. However, today my friend Sherry told me all about these parties..... And I thought she was joking but she was serious. I swear... I have no friends.
I don't want to go through that pain again.... Not again... I was friendless sense I was in 1st grade. Then when I was in 7th grade so many changes began to happen. I lost all of the friends I made. Now in 8th grade I made a new image for myself and I made tons of friends. Now they are all betraying me. I don't want to live friendless anymore. Its insane and inhumane. If I have no friends, then I will be alone again. Sitting in a corner with no one even caring about me. I don't want that again. Ive had my heart broken too many times now.
I remember when I was in 3rd grade this stupid boy pretended to like me, then when he asked me out, I thought he ment it so I said yes, and he began laughing and so did all of his friends. I never felt so sad before. It was the worst joke that was ever played on me. And I still have the emotional scars today. I mean, all my life i have been a target for pranks.... but that was the worst.
Digi, I know you said you have gone through pain like I am, but I don't believe you. Because all that happened to me has effected me forever. I am sick of being a loner. I wanna be with everyone that I can.
I wonder if I sit alone at a lunch table on Monday if they will come over to me, or they only care about the stupid lunch table that we sit at. I wanna see if they do care... Or it was just a prank to hurt my feelings again.
I havent been this sad sense I was 8 years old... When my only friend moved away. And I haven't seen her again.
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Post by wandering jinchuuriki on Mar 26, 2004 16:42:49 GMT -5
If you think that your new friends are betraying you just talk to them about it if they leave you about then they're not worthy friends at all; you've got to be direct if they are betraying you then search for some trustworhty friends Iknow how it feels to be alone(Actually I've come to like the feeling)but it's not the worst thing in the world! *violin*
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Post by E-109 Omega on Mar 26, 2004 18:04:39 GMT -5
Why me? With 04 alone all of my "friends" have had 10 parties and I have gotten invited to none of them. They were promised not to tell me. However, today my friend Sherry told me all about these parties..... And I thought she was joking but she was serious. I swear... I have no friends. I don't want to go through that pain again.... Not again... I was friendless sense I was in 1st grade. Then when I was in 7th grade so many changes began to happen. I lost all of the friends I made. Now in 8th grade I made a new image for myself and I made tons of friends. Now they are all betraying me. I don't want to live friendless anymore. Its insane and inhumane. If I have no friends, then I will be alone again. Sitting in a corner with no one even caring about me. I don't want that again. Ive had my heart broken too many times now. I remember when I was in 3rd grade this stupid boy pretended to like me, then when he asked me out, I thought he ment it so I said yes, and he began laughing and so did all of his friends. I never felt so sad before. It was the worst joke that was ever played on me. And I still have the emotional scars today. I mean, all my life i have been a target for pranks.... but that was the worst. Digi, I know you said you have gone through pain like I am, but I don't believe you. Because all that happened to me has effected me forever. I am sick of being a loner. I wanna be with everyone that I can. I wonder if I sit alone at a lunch table on Monday if they will come over to me, or they only care about the stupid lunch table that we sit at. I wanna see if they do care... Or it was just a prank to hurt my feelings again. I havent been this sad sense I was 8 years old... When my only friend moved away. And I haven't seen her again. You're not friendless, what about the people on this forum, and other forums you're on? I've been friendless before, for about 6 years, I know the feeling. You just have to believe that in the long run, everything will turn out all right, it did for me. |
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 26, 2004 18:24:32 GMT -5
You're not friendless, what about the people on this forum, and other forums you're on? I've been friendless before, for about 6 years, I know the feeling. You just have to believe that in the long run, everything will turn out all right, it did for me. Friends in real life can't compare to friends onlien. No offence, but I can't see you and I can't read you emotions. |
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Post by Kogen on Mar 26, 2004 19:37:26 GMT -5
Theres no point to do the "talk to them and if they are real friends they will.. blah blah blah" thats all crap if you ask me, just try talking to people in class or at lunch. That usually works. Ask people for help with stuff and try to get to know them. I know what you mean, I had no friends in grade 9 because I never talked to anyone and I have never been to a party or anything like that before...
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Post by Draco on Mar 26, 2004 21:14:41 GMT -5
Trust me, you will find out who your real friends are and who are not. I agree with Kogen, the talk is pointless. But just because you didn't go to parties doesn't mean they are not your friends. It is possible that their other friends invited them. You got to remember that friedns do have other friends, so give them room. You will understand more once you get out of the whole school drama.
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 27, 2004 11:46:10 GMT -5
Trust me, you will find out who your real friends are and who are not. I agree with Kogen, the talk is pointless. But just because you didn't go to parties doesn't mean they are not your friends. It is possible that their other friends invited them. You got to remember that friedns do have other friends, so give them room. You will understand more once you get out of the whole school drama. But... Buddy, my friends were invited by eachother. One threw the party and invited the rest in the group. However, I wasn't invited. I am sick of beign left out. No more Buddy. I don't want to be alone again! |
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Post by E-109 Omega on Mar 27, 2004 13:35:45 GMT -5
Friends in real life can't compare to friends onlien. No offence, but I can't see you and I can't read you emotions. Point taken. |
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Post by DigiTails on Mar 27, 2004 18:45:35 GMT -5
I swear... I have no friends. Digi, I know you said you have gone through pain like I am, but I don't believe you. Because all that happened to me has effected me forever. I am sick of being a loner. I wanna be with everyone that I can. I havent been this sad sense I was 8 years old... When my only friend moved away. And I haven't seen her again. [glow=purple,2,300]*goes over to zg and slaps her*Friendless? Yeah right you have one friend. Don't talk to me about friendless. I won't argue with heartbroken, I believe that. And don't talk to me about being a loner, got that? Or trying to make more friends, I've probably tried 100 different methods to make friends and all of them have failed. I'll give you a breif outline first grade: I was backstabbed way before you seem to have been. my only friend then backstabbed me along with all the other girls in my class and so I couldn't eat lunch, d--- teacher made me eat in front of the whole class. That explains why I hate eating front of people, or eating slowly, that was really embarrisng. Thinking about it today, it hurts like it was just new. The pain has won't and can't dull, even if I was surrounded by friends, it would still sting. that one incident gave me a deep mistrust of people. Second grade: I make a new frined that stuck this time, one prob I can only talk to my new friend at church. third garde: my "friend" from the first grade forgot about me completely. Left me hanging friend less for a few months until I made another friend. My newest friends older sibling were teasing himn about having a friend that was a girl so I was forgotten again for a long time. fourth grade: I made a new friend two grades below me, but what the hey, at least I have a friend in my school. Fitfth Grade: I make another friend, an all time high, three. Nothing much else happens except now I seem to be a freak. Sixth grade: a friend moves away so now I only have two. Svetnth Grade: I make another sticking me with three again. I make another, but not considerable as she's no longer my friend by the end of the year. Eight Grade: Another friend moves away, sticking me with 2. Ever since the 3rd garde I've been told that so many boys like me. All proven wrong. I was passed notes to telling me that they liked me. I want to wring those kids necks so badly. My school thinks they've ended bullying, but until I'm not emotionally bullied that ain't true[/glow] |
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Post by Lil Ninja on Mar 27, 2004 22:11:27 GMT -5
I know how that felt once ZG. And I know that people you talk to online aren't really what someone would call a "friend" because we don't actually know each other. But just think of us all as... hmm.... how about aquaintances. There is always someone here to talk with if ever you have a problem.
Like once when there was a Hyrule Town Square message board, there was always this one person i could talk to even though I don't really know the person. But it'd help relieve myself of my emotions and all. So tell you what, if ever you need someone to talk to, pm me. I never really mind going through problems with people. Usually everyone comes to me to talk about their problems but I never have anyone to go to talk about mine!
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Post by Geno Soldier 12 on Mar 28, 2004 0:31:13 GMT -5
uhmm heres an idea, dont give a **** if everyone is that much of an ass just dont try to fit their interests or whatever, because you dont wanna be an ass like them do you? but thats just my thoughts, i been living in my new house for like......2-6 weeks, i lost all the friends from my old town as i may never see them again.but i got another idea, just be friends with them at school and school alone if its that important to you cause school time is really the only time you need friends when your in school anyway, its not like you can help anyone by being friends with them outside of school anyway, oh and as for those parties, be glad you dont go to them, sure they seem like fun but getting drunk, smokeing pot or whatever seriously screws up your personality and makes you miserable, as well as takes up years of your life when you try to quit, and thats about all they do at those parties, well they have sex ussually too, but when your a teenager i dont think its wise to have sex... unless those people are honorable, thats all they do at those parties
oh yeah, about the people online, its probably not wise to associate with a**holes online, though they cant rub off on you as much as real life people for a reason, when you talk to them its like theyre not real, like theyre in the internet alone, but if you can figure out peoples responses on the internet, you can definately figure people out in real life, which is how you know how not to piss someone off
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 28, 2004 10:42:37 GMT -5
[glow=blue,2,300]Digi... when I was bakc in preschool back when i was 3 I got my first taste of being backstabbed. I remember the last day of Preschool, a bunch of girls came up to me and slapped me. It hurt so much. Every grade that I was in I got slapped. And on Friday I got slapped by a pathetic 7th grader.
When I was in 3rd grade I had only 1 friend. And she moved away during the summer time and i have seen her only 1ce sense and she is so much different. Not the Ashley that was my best friend. Not even a friend at all.
Digi, the two of us share a completly painful past. However, we have it easy believe it or not. Have you moved from foster home to foster home? Never living in one place with one family? Do you know the pain of being taken away from one family and put into another. Do you know hte pain of literally having no food in the house at all? Do you know hte pain of not even having a parent to rely on?
My mom knows that, and she says that i have it easy compared to her.[/glow]
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Post by DigiTails on Mar 28, 2004 13:35:43 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]I argee with you. I know I have it easy compared to some people. But...............I feel so alone.......[/glow]
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Post by Geno Soldier 12 on Mar 28, 2004 22:26:02 GMT -5
i didnt really think of you two as positive thinkers, but think of it this way, things can get better, things always do,it just takes time, but if this makes you feel any better at all, this is not really a well known fact, but its indeed true, there is always a positive outcome from something negative, no matter how small, no matter how hard to find, there is always SOMETHING positive
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 29, 2004 11:20:25 GMT -5
[glow=purple,2,300]I argee with you. I know I have it easy compared to some people. But...............I feel so alone.......[/glow] |
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Post by Bailey on Mar 29, 2004 13:54:18 GMT -5
True friends are indeed very hard to find. Most people whom you refer to as friends are simply people who you can chat to and have a laugh with. A true friend loves you for you and will be there through good and bad times. People who can appreciate you in such a way are few and far between. However, do not feel disheartened if you don't get friends at school, maturity is far away  . It can be very depressing when you have no friends yes but it is better to have friends who are worth it rather than ones who will simply walk away. When I was younger I didn't have any friends either. If you are different you will be pushed away. This is because all people strive for security and acceptance, once they have found it they will hold on to it desperately; that means sticking with the group. Being yourself is a difficult path in childhood, but stick to it as in the future you will reap the rewards. Just remember that what people think of you is not important, they have no position or given right to decide how you or anyone else should be. Just stick to being you and you will eventually find friends who will like you for yourself, which, as far as I am concerned, are the only friends worth mentioning. Ive been through my fair share of crap in my life, never do I view it as a bad thing though. The bad experiences in life are the ones which really help us to grow into stronger and wiser individuals. After all, we only learn from mistakes. Try to see the brighter side of things in every situation, there is no such thing as a negative way forward. I hope you lot find friends who really are worth your time, life is indeed better when you have them. |
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Post by Geno Soldier 12 on Mar 29, 2004 18:52:52 GMT -5
ive never found anyone who could actually be a true friend lol
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Mar 29, 2004 19:44:08 GMT -5
True friends are indeed very hard to find. Most people whom you refer to as friends are simply people who you can chat to and have a laugh with. A true friend loves you for you and will be there through good and bad times. People who can appreciate you in such a way are few and far between. However, do not feel disheartened if you don't get friends at school, maturity is far away . It can be very depressing when you have no friends yes but it is better to have friends who are worth it rather than ones who will simply walk away. When I was younger I didn't have any friends either. If you are different you will be pushed away. This is because all people strive for security and acceptance, once they have found it they will hold on to it desperately; that means sticking with the group. Being yourself is a difficult path in childhood, but stick to it as in the future you will reap the rewards. Just remember that what people think of you is not important, they have no position or given right to decide how you or anyone else should be. Just stick to being you and you will eventually find friends who will like you for yourself, which, as far as I am concerned, are the only friends worth mentioning. Ive been through my fair share of crap in my life, never do I view it as a bad thing though. The bad experiences in life are the ones which really help us to grow into stronger and wiser individuals. After all, we only learn from mistakes. Try to see the brighter side of things in every situation, there is no such thing as a negative way forward. I hope you lot find friends who really are worth your time, life is indeed better when you have them.
Im not sure if I found friends that will always be there. However, I am the type of person that will always go out and help the ones that need to be helped. If someone is in dager in anyway, if its the right thing I will help them.
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Post by Draco on Mar 29, 2004 23:41:11 GMT -5
I've....been...hugged...CALL 911 someone. This isn't Zerogirl! We must contane this imposter.
Oh pipe down you freak!
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Post by Bailey on Mar 30, 2004 8:16:42 GMT -5
I know what you mean there pal, when you live your life in pursuit of the needs of others, you are the one who ends up on the dark side of the moon as it were. I suppose it is the curse of the generous . I spend a great deal of my time helping people, I'm never too busy, this is the only way I know how to be I guess lol. Despite the minimal rewards from a materialistic perspective, being a person on whom others can rely is, to me, so positive a position that you don't really need much thanks . Just never give up being who you are  . Oh yeah, one more thing, only the weak can overlook their own faults to find fault in others; never listen to criticism. Lol, I didn't know that anyone knew me, never mind remember , thanks anyway, tis good to be back. |
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Post by SaphireFox on Apr 21, 2004 17:35:41 GMT -5
I usually start out school days being alone...but someone always seems to notice me [ unlike much of this year, people don't recognize my name much, only when it comes to an art project  ] and we somehow become friends even if were complete opposites...so..I do feel very sorry for you |
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Post by ShadowFan24 on Apr 23, 2004 8:29:23 GMT -5
O.o wow this is an old topic. I am not like that anymore. Becuase I found friends in my neighborhood. Matt, Kristin, and Sarah are really cool. The four of us ride bikes all day, and I now know what its like to have friends.
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Post by E-109 Omega on Apr 23, 2004 14:22:55 GMT -5
That's good to hear.
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Post by PigsMayFlie on May 16, 2004 15:38:47 GMT -5
Nice to know you have new friends |
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Post by AlexTheGreat on Jun 1, 2004 20:18:24 GMT -5
HA! I went through almost the samething, only that I moved every year or so. In the fifth grade I had this one dude picking on me ALL THE TIME. So I was playing football with everyone and he was covering me. I was no contact Football, and he kept on pushing me. So I snapped and Beat the living *!@# out of him. Ever Since then I was treated respectfully. Since then I became les sof a hot head, and learned how to ward people off just by using my voice... Don't ask me how...
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Post by Morphed Chaos on Jun 4, 2004 17:39:36 GMT -5
ZG you should try toontown. you can make friends easly there. and a tip, have a lot of laff points.
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